Transform Suffering with Creativity

Transform Suffering with Creativity

“If you don’t transform your suffering, you will surely transmit it.” —Richard Rohr Although I have written and published two books during the past fifteen years, I have never considered myself a writer.  Ernest Hemingway said, “There is...
Betrayal: Did You Choose Your Reality?

Betrayal: Did You Choose Your Reality?

After a mind-bending abandonment by my long-time partner I received a lot of well-meaning advice. Some friends recommended to me, if I was serious about healing, that I take “one-hundred percent responsibility for everything that happened.” When I expressed my...
The Mysteries of the Broken Heart

The Mysteries of the Broken Heart

The heart broken in love opens like an archaeological dig into the past. The velocity of the fracturing draws you down, down, down through layers of feelings, strategies and beliefs that have been protecting your heart from a primeval pain. The grief and longing of...